Resources for Male Survivors


I posted last week asking people if they knew of some good resources for male victims of sexual assault. Here is the list people came up with:

Thanks everyone!

I cannot express how proud and excited I am that @SURJCSU sex trivia event was a hit (once again)! I can’t believe it’s been a year since I got to be a part of such an amazing organization and how many people and passions it led me to.

Congrats SURJ! I know that y’all will only continue to grow and be the amazing org it is!


just think about y’all millions and millions of little dark skinned black girls are going to go to the supermarket with their parents this month and when they’re waiting in line at the check out aisle they’re going to look up and see Lupita Nyong’o being hailed as the most beautiful woman in the world god is amazing



Sometimes you need to remind yourself that you were the one who carried you through the heartache. You are the one who sits with the cold body on the shower floor, and picks it up. You are the one who feeds it, who clothes it, who tucks it into bed, and you should be proud of that. Having the strength to take care of yourself when everyone around you is trying to bleed you dry, that is the strongest thing in the universe.

I absolutely needed to read that.



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Dear No One
Tori Kelly

But sometimes, I just want somebody to hold. Someone to give me their jacket when it’s cold. Got that young love even when we’re old. Yeah sometimes, I want someone to grab my hand. Pick me up, hold me close, be my man. I will love you till the end.

"If we just stand still,
all people will fade to blur,
around us kissing."
"I like alcoholic beverages on special occasions… and it just so happens that I think life is super special. All the time."
Grace Helbig (via theglasschild)
"No one asked, at any point, if Mitt Romney might give up on his presidential ambitions because he wanted to spend more time with his litter of grandkids. Fuck, no one even asked in 2012 if Tagg Romney would do less on the campaign trail because he just got two new babies. No one asked because not only did no one care, but because everyone assumed that things would go on as normal because that’s what the fuck people do, men, women, grand or otherwise. The only reason anyone is talking about this is because Hillary Clinton has lady parts. And, no matter how you wanna sputter, “But…no,” it comes out sexist."
Beth/Rest (Rare Book Room)
Bon Iver

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Pry it open with your love
Sending lost and alone standing offers