I drive. What do you do to find clarity in a chaotic world?

tylerforhire:

so accurate it hurts my soul a little

tylerforhire:

so accurate it hurts my soul a little

This is water.

themodernsound:

The plight of the 20-something.

themodernsound:

The plight of the 20-something.

juliasaywhat:

Changed my life. Truly.

"as a culture, we still refuse collectively to accept that most rapes are committed by ordinary men, men who have friends & families, men who may even have done great or admirable things with their lives. we refuse to accept that nice guys rape, & they do it often. part of the reason we haven’t accepted it is that it’s a painful thing to contemplate – far easier to keep on believing that only evil men rape, only violent, psychotic men lurking in alleyways with pantomime-villain mustaches & knives, than to consider that rape might be something that ordinary men do. men who might be our friends or colleagues or people we look up to …
actually, rape is very common. ninety thousand people reported rape in the united states in 2008 alone, & it is estimated that over half of rape victims never go to the police, making the true figure close to 200,000. between 10-20% of women have experienced rape or sexual assault. it’s so common that – sorry if this hurts to hear – there’s a good chance you know somebody who might have raped someone else. & there’s more than a small chance he doesn’t even think he did anything wrong, that he believes that what he did wasn’t rape, couldn’t be rape, because, after all, he’s not a bad guy."

thepeoplesrecord:

The troubling viral trend of the “hilarious” Black poor person
May 7, 2013

Charles Ramsey, the man who helped rescue three Cleveland women presumed dead after going missing a decade ago, has become an instant Internet meme. It’s hardly surprising—the interviews he gave yesterday provide plenty of fodder for a viral video, including memorable soundbites (“I was eatin’ my McDonald’s”) and lots of enthusiastic gestures. But as Miles Klee and Connor Simpson have noted, Ramsey’s heroism is quickly being overshadowed by the public’s desire to laugh at and autotune his story, and that’s a shame. Ramsey has become the latest in a fairly recent trend of “hilarious” black neighbors, unwitting Internet celebrities whose appeal seems rooted in a “colorful” style that is always immediately recognizable as poor or working-class.

Before Ramsey, there was Antoine Dodson, who saved his younger sister from an intruder, only to wind up famous for his flamboyant recounting of the story to a reporter. Since Dodson’s rise to fame, there have been others: Sweet Brown, a woman who barely escaped her apartment complex during a fire last year, and Michelle Clarke, who couldn’t fathom the hailstorm that rained down in her hometown of Houston, and in turn became “the next Sweet Brown.”

Granted, the buzzworthy tactic of reporters interviewing the most loquacious witnesses to a crime or other event is nothing new, and YouTube has countless examples of people of all ethnicities saying ridiculous things. One woman, for instance, saw fit to casually mention her breasts while discussing a local accident, while another man described a car crash with theatrical flair. Earlier this year, a “hatchet-wielding hitchhiker” named Kai matched Dodson’s fame with his astonishing account of rescuing a woman from a racist attacker. But none of those people have been subjected to quite the same level of derisive memeification as Brown, Clark, and now, perhaps, Ramsey—the inescapable echoes of “Hide yo’ kids, hide yo’ wife!” and “Kabooyaw,” the tens of millions of YouTube hits and cameos in other viral videos, even commercials.

It’s difficult to watch these videos and not sense that their popularity has something to do with a persistent, if unconscious, desire to see black people perform. Even before the genuinely heroic Ramsey came along, some viewers had expressed concern that the laughter directed at people like Sweet Brown plays into the most basic stereotyping of blacks as simple-minded ramblers living in the “ghetto,” socially out of step with the rest of educated America. Black or white, seeing Clark and Dodson merely as funny instances of random poor people talking nonsense is disrespectful at best. And shushing away the question of race seems like wishful thinking.

Ramsey is particularly striking in this regard, since, for a moment at least, he put the issue of race front and center himself. Describing the rescue of Amanda Berry and her fellow captives, he says, “I knew something was wrong when a little pretty white girl ran into a black man’s arms. Something is wrong here. Dead giveaway!”

The candid statement seems to catch the reporter off guard; he ends the interview shortly afterward. And it’s notable that among the many memorable things Ramsey said on camera, this one has gotten less meme-attention than most. Those who are simply having fun with the footage of Ramsey might pause for a second to actually listen to the man. He clearly knows a thing or two about the way racism prevents us from seeing each other as people.

Source

Now that you know this is a thing, please stop sharing these memes. Poor Black people speaking candidly about various serious incidents isn’t a hilarious joke.

tylerforhire:

ok my gramma posted this on the eff bee and it’s been making me mad for two days and I want to yell at someone but I can’t publicly shame my gramma even though I know in the end she would agree with me. I’ll talk to her about it later but in the mean time I need to VENT
75 PERCENT OF THE POPULATION IDENTIFIES AS CHRISTIAN
50 PERCENT OF AMERICA BELIEVE THE BIBLE SHOULD BE TAKEN LITERALLY AND THE SAME NUMBER OF PEOPLE BELIEVE ANGELS EXIST
CHRISTIANITY COMES BUILT IN WITH THE PRESUPPOSITION THAT FOLLOWERS BELIEVE EVERYONE WHO ISN’T CHRISTIAN IS GOING TO BURN FOR ALL ETERNITY IN A FIERY HELL
CHRISTIANS CAN MARRY EACH OTHER IN EVERY STATE (UNLESS THEY ARE ALSO SAME SEX COUPLES)
ALSO HIS FUCKING PARENTS ARE LITERALLY MISSIONARIES MEANING THEY ALL TRY TO MAKE PEOPLE BELIEVE WHAT THEY BELIEVE IN
THE LAST FEW HUNDRED YEARS PEOPLE HAVE NOT BEEN BRUTALLY BEATEN, LYNCHED, OR OTHERWISE MURDERED JUST FOR BEING CHRISTIAN
LGBTQ folks are less than ten percent of the population
IN 29 STATES YOU CAN GET FUCKING FIRED FROM YOUR JOB JUST FOR YOUR SEXUAL ORIENTATION. THAT SHIT IS LEGAL. THAT’S MORE THAN FUCKING HALF!!!!!!!!! IF YOU ARE GAY AND IN AMERICA CHANCES ARE YOU CAN BE FIRED FOR NO REASON
32 STATES HAVE LEGAL BANS ON SAME SEX MARRIAGE
GAY SEX WAS FUCKING ILLEGAL IN 14 STATES UNTIL FUCKING 2003
CONSENTING ADULTS COULD FACE LEGAL PENALTIES JUST FOR FUCKING UNTIL 2003
I think I’ve made my point
TL;DR being a white Christian athlete is not at all brave, being the first athlete playing a major sport in the US to come out is incredibly brave shut up everyone who disagrees you are wrong

tylerforhire:

ok my gramma posted this on the eff bee and it’s been making me mad for two days and I want to yell at someone but I can’t publicly shame my gramma even though I know in the end she would agree with me. I’ll talk to her about it later but in the mean time I need to VENT

  • 75 PERCENT OF THE POPULATION IDENTIFIES AS CHRISTIAN
  • 50 PERCENT OF AMERICA BELIEVE THE BIBLE SHOULD BE TAKEN LITERALLY AND THE SAME NUMBER OF PEOPLE BELIEVE ANGELS EXIST
  • CHRISTIANITY COMES BUILT IN WITH THE PRESUPPOSITION THAT FOLLOWERS BELIEVE EVERYONE WHO ISN’T CHRISTIAN IS GOING TO BURN FOR ALL ETERNITY IN A FIERY HELL
  • CHRISTIANS CAN MARRY EACH OTHER IN EVERY STATE (UNLESS THEY ARE ALSO SAME SEX COUPLES)
  • ALSO HIS FUCKING PARENTS ARE LITERALLY MISSIONARIES MEANING THEY ALL TRY TO MAKE PEOPLE BELIEVE WHAT THEY BELIEVE IN
  • THE LAST FEW HUNDRED YEARS PEOPLE HAVE NOT BEEN BRUTALLY BEATEN, LYNCHED, OR OTHERWISE MURDERED JUST FOR BEING CHRISTIAN
  • LGBTQ folks are less than ten percent of the population
  • IN 29 STATES YOU CAN GET FUCKING FIRED FROM YOUR JOB JUST FOR YOUR SEXUAL ORIENTATION. THAT SHIT IS LEGAL. THAT’S MORE THAN FUCKING HALF!!!!!!!!! IF YOU ARE GAY AND IN AMERICA CHANCES ARE YOU CAN BE FIRED FOR NO REASON
  • 32 STATES HAVE LEGAL BANS ON SAME SEX MARRIAGE
  • GAY SEX WAS FUCKING ILLEGAL IN 14 STATES UNTIL FUCKING 2003
  • CONSENTING ADULTS COULD FACE LEGAL PENALTIES JUST FOR FUCKING UNTIL 2003


I think I’ve made my point

TL;DR being a white Christian athlete is not at all brave, being the first athlete playing a major sport in the US to come out is incredibly brave shut up everyone who disagrees you are wrong

egberts:

i dont understand people who only sleep with one pillow

handsome-sharks:

lupinelelio:

aneurysmsanddesecrations:

k-xia:

deantrippe:

last day to reblog

you now you want to.

Gonna have to wait a whole year if you miss this.

Fine

0 reservations about reblogging this.

idgaf judge me

artismorality:

I made a project for my Adolescent Literature class about Intersectionality and Identity. I asked close friends, coworkers, and some residents to write two separate statements about two different identities they hold. With no knowledge of my intent to write about Intersectionality, they let me take some photos. Here are 8 of the 22 results.

THIS.

I want to change the world

I want to change the world.

I want a world where a child no longer has to hide who they are.

I want a world where a woman can walk down a dark alley with nothing but happiness.

I want a world where a man of color can walk down the street without the side glances.

I want a world where black and white are only colors on a paint canvas.

I want a world where I can Live. Breathe. Laugh. Love. Fuck. Enjoy.

I want a world. The world that I inherited. Not by choice, but by fate. I want a world. The world that I can change.

loganjack:

alright but this is so good

LANA.